"Life is never against you
because you are the one
who is creating it."
-- Akemi G
Once we can choose to accept that (and it is a choice), we are purely empowered to never ever be a victim again. We simply make another choice if one we have chosen is not to our liking. You could call it personal responsibility, but I think it is more like ultimate authority.
"When Things Happen, Live Them. When They End, Move On. Accept And Enjoy Bewilderment In The Flow." -- Akemi G
Spread Some Joy Today--by accepting your own choices and celebrating them.